Say I know how to make fruit salad. And I can make he best fruit salad in the world. If you come to me because you have a problem making fruit salads what am I going to do is take you to my kitchen. Am I going to take you to my kitchen – sit you down and ask you to tell me all the things you do to ruin your fruit salad?
First off – I don;t really want to hear your bad habits lest I start getting bad ideas, I really just want to show you the right way to make a fruit salad. This is not only easier and less time consuming, I know for a fact that
Of course the counselling industry is built on listening rather than provising solutoions. I know because i spent several months at a counsellors who in the end offered NO advice whatsoever! Not even from the bible. Did idt occor to anyone the reason for this? $$$$. How much is a counsellor going to make if they just read out the Bible the answer to your problems – ie the right way to do something when they can string it out for weeks knowing you would like nothing ore than to talk about ypur prblems endlessly without having to actually do anything about it!
The same happened when I had driving tests – I was offered to be booked for 10 more when I had already enough to take my test – $$$$ follow the money!
You want to stop using a microwave?… I guarantee you won;t stop using it until you sell it! But if you do you are unlikey to sneak down to the garage to use their microwave!