Christian
Dating Services †
Online
dates & Internet dating sites for the single Christian
The
first time I saw a dating site in the web was somewhere around
1994. We had a connection in our design studio and I was surfing
around and came across it quite by accident... you don't
think I was looking for a date do you?!!* Since
then, the number of daing sites on the Internet
has exploded exponetially and is now probably well into the thousands!
I wish I could remember the company... I recall it was one of
the now massive originals - possibly Match.com
- check it out for yourself - not strictly
for Christians
but Im sure has a large database of single Christians if you don't
mind paying a dollar or twenty. Anyhow I remember clicking around
and once I'd realised how it worked (a simple email system linking
users who log in and edit their own profile /add photos etc) I
was astonished at the ease at which if I was willing to pay the
price, I could now meet new peoplw online.
That
was in 94'.. and since then - in 10 years, the number of dating
sites has doubled, quadrupled... there are now 1000's of sites.
I reckon probably 10 or 20 new sites a week. It is amazing that
any make any money now that there are so many. But it's all down
to the marketeers. Who got there first plays also a large part
in success of an online dating service. And because singles don't
always stay single, there is always a huge supply of people willing
to pay a few dollars and try their luck in luv!
How
to find genuinely Christian Singles sites...
Most dating companies
realised early on that to compete with the biggest secular players
is futile so what agencies do is specialise in a particular dating
market. Hence the arrival of specialised Christian dating sites!
Now - amazingly the Christian dating services on the web generally
have MORE members than the secular non-christiam sites - an amazing
feat though not altogether surprising once you look a little closer
at the sites themselves. Christians are fooled by non-Christian
sites, but not for long. It does mean - if you want to find
a Christian mate
- best use a real Christian service!
A Christian person will type 'Christian Dating' into a search
engine and get many results - apparently Christian websites. Some
may well be good Christian sites and the search engines themselves
strive to get rid of the 'junk' results. The entries that arn't
Christain sites, often employ techniques to rank near the top
of the results - something search engines don't like since the
user isn't
given the information they asked for and often sent to an irelevant
web site.
The page in the results may be headed something like... ''Cristian
Singles, Christian Dating, Vancouver Dates...' plus a
description equally compelling - eg. Christian dating,
vancouver dating service, free catholic dating service. ... Christian
dating, vancouver dating service, free catholic dating service.
However when you click, what's called a 'page redirect'
kicks in and you may be whisked off to some secular dating site
- ie not the page described by the link in the search results.
Doesnt always happen but is often used by web sites to gain more
hits and the most members.
Find
a site or dating service that suits you...
Spend a while surfing
around to find sites that have Christian principles stated in
their 'about us' sections. This may take a bit of digging! If
they say nothing regarding Christianity, you can be pretty sure
it's a secular company wanting a pice of the Chrisian action -
nothing wrong with that - but just so you know.
Good Christian sites include Christian
Cafe - great for american singles. In the
UK specifically Click
to date. For free singles worldwide try fusion
free Christian Singles -
an effective free service if you're not loaded right at the moment!
Also christianlinks.com.au.
Try them all if you like - most offer a free trial. See our dating
site reviews
also to give you an indication of prices and charges of the biggest
secular sites plus the number or features and members each service
has.
Have
Fun!
Christian Dating advice help &
tips @ christian advice.net 2004
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